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Another blog:  “I have learned that although I’m not interested in a relationship with these men, I have to relate to them. I’m a curious person. I like to learn about people, what their lives are like, what they care about, what they are passionate about. I want to know their story.  It’s not just sex.  I also don’t want you to promise me how good you are at giving oral sex in your first message. ‘Blah blah blah blah blah’ would be just as effective to write. Doesn’t mean we can’t talk about it or you can prove it down the line, but if you have to lead with that, you probably suck. And not in a good way.”