‘Playing with power, figuring out what it means to me to have power in a sexually charged interaction.’ Amen.
I met with David yesterday evening at a trendy bar in the city. He was one of the first men to contact me on AM via IM chat and we hit it off, so I thought I’d give it a try. He’s “separated” (or so he says – I’m skeptical), and we had exchanged some very hot IM banter over the past week. I was a little anxious but really just curious. I had no idea what to expect. Our messaging back and forth had been HOT and very exciting. I was anticipating feeling swept off my feet, aroused, titillated, something…. Right? Well, physically he was disappointing. And interpersonally? It was just odd. He asked lots of questions. So many that I felt uncomfortable, almost intruded upon. He answered my questions, but honestly I’m not there to play 20 questions. This is about fantasy, right? (I’m asking myself that actually. …
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